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“It feels like I am the only one.” “Why me?” “Am I crazy?” If you’re nodding your head as you read these statements, you are NOT the only one. Oftentimes we isolate when we are going through something painful, but we also isolate our pain.
Dr. Kristin Neff (Youtube.com) reflects wonderful research around the 3 Components of Self-Compassion: Self-Kindness, Mindfulness and Common Humanity. When we are in a place of suffering, we tend to isolate mentally and cut ourselves off from support. We may not all share the same life experiences, but we all do carry the same human emotions: sadness, anger, grief, joy, shame and many more. Dr. Kristin Neff normalizes human suffering in that suffering is a part of life and we don’t have to go through it alone. We are naturally built for human connection and the need to be understood with what we go through in life. All too often feeling like what you are going through is “just you” is one of the many barriers to finding other people who also can relate to either the experience, emotion or the suffering. One example of a shared difficult experience as a country is the COVID-19 pandemic. Many people continue to suffer today from the anxiety, depression and isolation that originated from this pandemic, but few
individuals recognize that they are not alone.
And it’s not just about seeking professional help, but also that you give yourself the compassion you deserve to reveal your pain and find connection.
Kristin Neff’s 3 Components Of Self-Compassion Brief Breakdown:
Kindness - Being kind and gentle towards ourselves during times of pain and suffering.
Mindfulness - Being aware of the physical, emotional, and mental pain.
Common Humanity-Recognizing that painful emotions are a part of being human.
“Remember, if you really want to motivate yourself, love is more powerful than fear.”
- Dr. Kristin Neff.
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